Baby Renee is 3 months old now.....

Time flies…. and Baby Renee is 3 months old now….

She is growing well.

She is getting prettier and prettier.

She is super duper cute.

She is very good girl, not bringing much trouble to maternal grandma.

She likes to smile and laugh (just like her mommy and sister. *wink*). Her first smile was during her 1 month old plus…. Her smile is very cute and lovely. You will love it if you see it, especially the laughs with “ka ka” sounds. I swear.

She loves her mini piano toys (it used to be her sister toy last time) so much…. I think she loves music so much… so piano lesson for you, ok baby darling? She is learning to “sing” together with the songs that the toy is playing….. a wonderful scene.

Yet, she loves to talk as well. Her first talk was during her 1 month old plus too.
She likes to be attracted. She loves to be accompanied.

One thing really headache me, she loves crib too much, she like addicted to the crib…. How am I supposed to stop her from sleeping in the crib…… she will just keep crying until she get it….

Yes… she is very particular… since she was born. No doubt.
I bought her Enfagrow, she wants Frisolac.

I bought her pacifier so that she is not too much into mommy breast. But she refuse, she only accepted the sixth pacifier I bought for her. Hence, she has six pacifiers but she only uses one.

I bought her a baby bottle, but she does not like the nipple. As usual, I have to buy another one for her. Luckily she likes the second one. I went to Twins Baby too frequent till the sales girl asking me why am I so frequent to the shop….. der…..

She likes to be carried, but only certain position. She can not stay tune in a same position too long, she wants to be carried in a different way.

Me and my mom slowly figured it out one by one since she was born… not easy though as she keep crying and crying for the demanding.

However, all this does not stopping us to love her. She is still one of the “best of the best” to me!!!!!

there you go with my baby sweet heart......

Experience in Phnom Penh

Finally, arrived at Cambodia for maid selection.

Hmm…… how should I describe Phnom Penh?

My first impression was - it is a very poor and dirty country.
Poor as in impoverished, backward
Poor as in pitiful, miserable
Poor as in awful.

Dirty as in it is dusty everywhere
Dirty as in smelly when passes through those valleys

Currency wise, they are using is US Dollar and having 'riel' as small change.
I will conclude that the living standard of the country is at poverty line.

Sorry that no such photos for viewing pleasure as I don’t really feel like taking those photos. I will feel bad and guilty if I were to do so.

Phnom Penh, capital of Cambodia which I do not sonsider is big. There are not many places for visit and I had spend half of my trip staying in the hotel, to take a nap. Hubby and I had spent our first whole night at Sisowath Quay and Naga World. Sisowath Quay, a most happening street at night in Phnom Penh. You can see those “Mat Saleh” gathered along the street, but you can also see the most ugly part of the city; beggars are everywhere along the street, or maybe they are not beggars. Most of them are from small village, according to one of the local. They came for a job, a better life, unfortunately they failed to get a job. Hence, endws up the whole family “live” on the street. Most of the children have no clothes, and they share a very small thin cloth as a blanket.

~ Outside Holidays Villa ~

You could not imagine how miserable to see few half naked small children sleep along the street and share among a small blanket.
You could not imagine how depressed to see those young beggars look very skinny and malnutrition.
You could not imagine how sad to see those babies growing in such environment.

I was so deep down sad and moody when I saw all those which I never expect to see during the trip. Please do not blame as no one tell me this before my trip.

Yet, sooner and later, I have insensitive to the environment there.

Alright, enough for the feelings talk.

Let’s back to the place I visited.
As I said, Sisowath Quay is the most happening place. There are a lot of bistros, bars and restaurants served in variety cuisine such as France Cuisine, Chinese Cuisine, Thai Cuisine, Local Cuisine, Western Cuisine…. Besides, there are a lot of souvenir shops too.

The most ridicules, there are quite numbers of shops are selling pirated DVD and VCD. Well, all MADE IN MALAYSIA!!!! This really “memalukan”!!!!! Although, I am one of the supporter for pirated CDs in our market.

*Rayne is laughing crazily*

Oh ya, have to mention that, you never get to find any Pizza Hut or McD over there. The only familiar fast food we can find is KFC and I was so surprise to see Swensen in Sorya Mall, currently Phnom Penh's main Western-style mall nearby Central Market.

Hubby and I were not daring to try out their local food which selling by the local hawker due to their unhygienic. Hence, we go for restaurants which more convincing to us, but not cheap to dine in thier restaurants. The cheapest meal cost us almost USD20 and the most expensive meal cost us more than USD22 just for 2 pax in the normal restaurant.

~Hubby first Meal in Phnom Penh: French Cuisine (I had forgotten the name of this dish), they served spoiled spaghetti!!!~

~My first Meal in Phnom Penh: Fish Amok (Local Food)~

~Outside the restaurant~

~Sisowath Quay~

~I walked towards this place when I listen of the latest English Hit song then I saw STREET DANCE!!! unbelievable huh!!~

Second place that we went on the first night was Naga World, one and the only one GRAND CASINO in Phnom Penh but very small compared with our Genting Casino.

We had a little fun in the casino before heading back to Holiday Villa and we lost USD80.

*sorbs* *sorbs*

~ Naga World ~

~ Casino Entrance ~

~ Another Casino Entrance ~

Philimore training center was our second day’s journey. The person in-charge, Tong-An was so kind to take us from hotel to the training center, by S320!!! Not bad huh…. My first experience of S320….

Luckily it took us about an hour to settle everything cum a quick tour to the center. The training center was so smelly and dirty. Indescribable.
Many asks for the photos, so there you go…..

~ Philimore ~

~ Schooling time ~

~ Different Colour of Shirt represent different intake ~

~The higher lever of the building, the higher lever class ~

~ One of the roof top ~

~They learn to take care eldely~

~My New Maid~

~Kitchen~

~ Food Preparing ~

~Place for them to hang and dry their clothes~

Upon our request, Tong-An took us to Russian Market for crazy shopping. In there, we almost spent all our USD with a quick shop. Everything in there was cheap, cheap, cheap and CHEAP!!!!

All the good quality clothes for children or babies only cost USD2.50 per pc. Those branded clothes are rejected from the factory, like we usually saw in Brand Outlet.
After bargain, I got 5 silk hand made ties for only USD10.00. Good quality too!!!
Another well bargain, I got a silk sleepwear for only USD5.00. The selling price for a similar one at here is almost RM50 – RM60.
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Sorry that I am too lazy to list them out one by one.

I will suggest you guys bring more USD if you plan to have to a crazy shopping spree over there. I am sadlto say that I brought too little USD, hence, not crazy enough…..

*sorbs* *sorbs*

Well, since I had spent most of my money in Russian Market, so no more fun at my last day in Phnom Penh. I only went for Royal Palace for a short visit (means expedite!!!!).
There was nothing special in there but the entrance fees had cost us USD6.25 per person. I have to say that, not worth for that amount at all……

*Sigh*

~ Entrance of Royal Palace ~

For those female who is still single and available:

The king of Cambodia is sooooooo handsome!!! and the most tempting is.....

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He is single and available too!!!!! want to be a queen in this life? fly to there fast and try to grab him!!!!!

*Rayne is laughing crazily*

I never go for Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum and The Killing Fields, I been told by one of the Philimore agents that she been disturbed by that “thing” and been incumbent by that “thing” during that night she back from Killing Fields.

Tong-An was planning to bring us there… well, no thanks, I replied. I do not want to be incumbent anyhow….

So, that’s our “fantastic” trip in Phnom Penh…….

Really “fantastic, awesome” lor~~~~~~

Hah~~~~

Hubby will be away for a while......

Hubby will be going over to Sydney to tidy up the operation there on 10th June.

I will be at home with little Rachel (only) for the 10days.

Hubby is worrying about me since he has to throw everything to me for 10days.

Come on dear, I am not that feeble as you think.

I am actually able to handle quite a lot of stuffs by myself. Well, sometimes I did pretend feeble and soft to satisfy your man’s vanity a.k.a pride!

*Rayne is giggling*

However, sometimes I still need to be independent at certain situation. Hence, no worry, nothing will difficult me.

On the contrary, I am more worry about your situation at Sydney. You seem that so worry and pressure yourself too much onto this matter. I understand that thing will not ever run smooth as per what we thought but we should not throw ourselves into confusion. We should go on with our plan step by step, things should be alright then.

I really wish that it really happened as per our plan. And I think it should work with blessing from our beloved daddy.

Let’s work hard for our wonderful future!!!!!

Flying off

I am going off to Cambodia today. For choosing/ interview my replacement maid.

Hopefully that I will get the one I satisfy with.

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Wish me luck please….

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By the way, happy holidays to you missy chaw~~~~~

Enjoy your trip ya~~~~

And make sure I won't see a Darlie after this.......

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*Rayne is laughing crazily*

Thoughtful.

Upon request, I have post my previous post, 思维 in En version.

Here you go, miss Chaw.

Today, I had snatched a little leisure during my working hour.
Went into the SinChew.com initially, focus onto the hit news, A(H1N1) flu, as worried that it will spread around in our country. Luckily, there is no new case cso far. I hope the situation remains until 20th, and we should be safe from that horrible flu.

While I was surfing, I accidentally found a link that recommends those Chinese blogs.
Quiet fun though.
Then, I just simply click into those blogs and some of the posts reminded me the days before having kids.

And I came to realize that
I am not young anymore (thought I am yet to be 30,... I am only 28 ++ actually)My freedom is losing slowly while kids are growing up.
My life had totally changed.
I no longer live by myself but have to take care my family as well.
I can’t spend (money & time) like I did during old days.
Sometimes, I feel jealous to those friends whom are not married.
As they can do whatever they like, they do not carry those burdens that have to be bared with thier entire lifes yet. And they have ENOUGH freedom really which I had lost forever.
However, I am still who I am, and I never regret to get married at so-young-age.
Otherwise, my dad would not able to meet his beloved cute grand daughter.
Otherwise, I will not able to enjoy my current life.
OtherwiseI can’t enjoy the joyful of being a mom.
But, I still have my youthful and naughty side, I still act the same like last time.Sometimes, I am a peevish girl in front of hubby.
Sometimes, I am willful.
Sometimes, I will have a tantrum.
Sometimes, I am childish.

We study hard last time, to hope that we will make a career.
We work hard, to hope that will have a better life.
When we were heading to 30, we will get married and have a baby (at least) with our beloved one.
We hope that they will have a better job opportunity and a better life too when our kids grown-up.
We hope to enjoy our peaceful life in our late years.

That is the true meaning of life.

Miss you crazily, my baby darling~~~~~

I miss my Baby Renee so much……
I miss her cry.
I miss her smile.
I miss her cute expression.
I miss her smell.
I miss my baby badly~~~~~~

But I only get to see her on next weekend……

思维

今天，在工作的时候忙里偷闲了一阵子。

先是往星洲网里头钻，关心一下现在最hit的A型流感。担心它会蔓延开来。还好，到今天为止都没有新病列。希望可以维持现况到20日，那么我们大家就安全了。

然后，意外的发现了原来星洲有一个网页是介绍博客的。
有趣。
往里头随手click一click，看看其他人的部落格。

从中令我回想了没有孩子之前的日子。
原来，我不再年轻。（虽然本姑娘还没过30大关，严格来说，才28岁出头叻！）
原来，我的自由正随着孩子的成长慢慢一点一点的流失。。。
原来，我的生活习惯已经180度转变了。
原来，我不能只为自己过活。。。我还有一头家得顾。
原来，我已不能像以前那么的挥霍。
原来，我已不能像以前那么随心所欲的度过我的每一分，每一秒。
原来，我已不能像以前那么的轻松自在。
还真的有一点羡慕那些未婚的朋友的咯。
可以我行我素，没有负担，自由自在的过活。

虽然如此，但是我还是原来我，也从没后悔那么早就结婚生孩子。
若非如此，我爸他又怎能看见他心爱的孙女呢？
若非如此，我又怎能享受现在的生活呢？
若非如此，我又怎能体会到做妈妈的快乐呢？

我也有我童真的一面，我也有我淘气的一面，我也有我以前的一面。

偶尔，我也会向老公撒娇。
偶尔，我也会任性一下。
偶尔，我也会耍脾气。
偶尔，我也会有小孩子气。

小时努力读书，希望有出人头地的一天。
大时工作，希望日子过的好一点。
迈向30时，结婚生孩子，希望拥有与挚爱的爱情结晶品。
中年时，希望看见孩子大学毕业，出人头地，成凤。
老时，希望可以安享晚年。

人生，就是如此。

Sick again.

Little Rachel is not feeling well again.....

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No appetite, diarrhoea, fever......

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Gastroenteritis, told by paediatrics.

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Hence, she is on medicine currently.

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Sad.

Malaysia confirms first case of A(H1N1) flu!!!!!

Oh god…. I thought that this will not comes into our country yet it comes!!!!

A 21 years old student from US had brought the flu back, and currently in Sg Buloh Hospital.

What’s a scary news….

I am worrying…. I am going to bring Baby Renee to SunMed for vaccination tomorrow….

I am a person who very fussy, demanding and unreasonable…..
However, I always demand something (sometimes quite excessive) from hubby; and yet he will try his best to fulfill me.
Kind of selfish
*Eyes rolling*
I have my own oh-so-very-good persuade for my demand for all time….

I need to buy more clothes for daughter because……
I need a better handbag for myself because…….
I need a smarter maid because……
I want to revisit HK because……
I am thinking of changing my mobile phone because…….
You still owe me a Japan trip because……
I need……. because…..
I want …… because…..

Endless demand…. with never-ending explanation…..
Too much. That is TOO MUCH!!!!!
Ya..ya…
I know…. I had learned to self-control. I always pull back after huh hah huh hah a lot to hubby.
But, he seldom say no to me and I frequently get my desire.
House. Furniture. Watch. Mobile phone. Camera. Trips. Parties. Necessaries (which is actually not required)…….
Only one thing….. I will only get another diamond ring from him when pigs fly!!!!!
Recently, I came out with another demand that going over the top. This could make our life change, and this could change his carrier path. Yet, he is willing to get a try for me, for babies, though it will be a very big decision and a very difficult task for him.
*tears rolling down*
I should feel satisfied with my life ever since I could marry a husband that would do everything for his beloved ones in my life.
What’s more to wish?
Once again, no regret.

27th Borthday Wishes....

Hope it adds

Some special pleasure

To the hours of your day

To know you're being thought of

In the very warmest way...

And when your birthday's over,

Hope that you'll remember, too,

The same warm thoughts as always

Will keep going out to you!

Happy 27th Birthday to you, Steph.

Hotdog. Hot Dog.

I have nothing to shout out.

I just want to share this cute photo that I accidentally searched last week.

H-O-T-D-O-G

Happy Birthday to you, hot chick!!!!

Hey, it’s your 20th birthday!!!!
Big gal ya~~~~
Let’s say bye to 1x!!!!!!
Let’s say bye to your youth!!!!
Welcome to the 2x!!!!!
*Gliggling*
Anyway, you still look pretty and forever 17.
Happy Birthday, Bel~~~~~~

Another Mother’s Day is here.

“A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.”

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!!!!
As well as myself!!!!!!

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*Rayne is laughing crazily*

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And never I forget,

Happy Mommy's Day to all the Momma out there!!!!!!

Believe it or not

I understand that on call is a very suffering task and it is damn sucks, damn tiring. For me, I could not stand for non-stop working from 7am until 5 – 6 pm of the next day. I have to salute those doctors. I-N-D-E-E-D. For me, I will starting get mad whenever I feel sleepy in the mid night.

Yet, I could not understand how come he can do this? He able to answer the call and put it on his ear but not able to take it off after the call????????

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Step 1: Press the answer button of the phone

Step 2: Place the phone beside the ear and talk

Step 3: Press hang up button when finish talking

Step 4: Take off the phone from ear.

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He just SAVE whichever step he can.

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What's a ridiculous....

As I believe that every one of you knew that it is proven that electrostatic from the phone might cause cancer.

Consequences: Get scold from the queen of the house!!!!!

Hey, bro. Sorry for betraying. =P

Baby Renee my sweetheart!!!!!

Alright, enough for the post with full of texts. I just realized that I have quite some times never post my Baby Renee’s photo up for sharing.

Here you go then.

Pondering……

我周不時喺度唸，我究竟幾時先至可以吾使見到啲克我憎嘅人？

我真係好希望係聽日，不個係冇可能嘅，兼好鬼荒蕪添！！！

人生係冇可能好似我哋所希望咁十全十美嘅。

我知。我知咖。。。。。

唉。。。。

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Yes. I am pondering when will be the time for those people I hatred get out from my life.

I wish the day will be tomorrow….. but it is impossible and ridiculous !!!

Life will never be perfect as per what we want it to be.

I know. I K-N-O-W………

*Sigh*

Little Rachel To The Nursery School

At last, I had settled Little Rachel’s nursery school issue. I actually started looking for a kindy for little one last year, planned to send her in when she turns to 3 years old. Hubby said it is too early to send her in at about 2 or 2 plus, it is kind of distressing for her. However, plan had pushed earlier and we eventually still have to send her in at 2 due to my maid issue.

Initially, I planned to send her into Peter N Jane at PJ or Mutiara Damansara, which is a popular kindergarten in PJ, and I like the location as it is beside the LDP, easier for me to send her while I am on my way to work. This kindy is using Mentessori method to teach the kids, not like others kindy. I had tried to scout around for the different method implemented among those kindy and I felt comfortable with this kind of method. But, when comes to the fees, it really surprises us. Nursery cost RM3000 per semester and day care cost RM3300 per semester excluding misc fees. They have 2 sem per year, means if I am going to send my daughter in, I have to spend RM12600 a year, at least.

Nevertheless, while I am considering, company had annouced that TW is going to move to Gleanmarie in a few months time. As a result, Peter N Jane is totally out of my consideration as the location is too far away from my new office lcoation and I am actually looking for a kindy that I will passby on my way to work everyday .

Finally, I had scouted around Puchong (again) since she had to start at May. My MIL’s mahjong friend had recommended her a kindy that her daughter working with, Taska Bright Gems in Bandar Puteri. This kindy is very good and popular, according to her. I put that as one of my consideration list while I was looking around from Bandar Kinrara to Bandar Puteri for more choices. After compared those kindies such as Smart Reader, CEC, Q-dees…… I found out that the teaching method of this kindy is similar to Peter N Jane. They emphasis on “Learn through play”, attitude, behavior, sensory, independent….. (sorry that I can’t remember all). Thus, I decided to put her into this kindy. Their fee is slightly cheaper than Peter N Jane, RM800 for full day, and RM450 for half a day, but they do not have school holidays and they only off 15days a year excluding public holidays. It might not be the best one in Puchong but I am happy with their teaching method and environment. Not only that, the most important is security of Puteri 8 is very very straight.

Most of the parents stated in the forum that Eduland is the best and the most expensive, RM605 for half day. I do agree with those parents but I put my daughter safety into my main consideration since there is a kidnap case outside the kindy in Bandar Utama recently. So, Taska Bright Gems still the best choice for me. Luckily little Rachel able to suit herself into hew new life style and her Taska within few days, though she will cry and make noise before school in the morning but surprisingly she stopped crying when getting out from the car.

Yet, I am so proud of her, my lovely baby!!!

*wink**wink*

Getting rid out of trouble soon… hopefully.

I was surprised that how releaved it can be after sending the Fan Xu back to the agent. I was so worried that the agent procedure might be complicated. Luckily, agent never gives us trouble and Fan Xu admits her faults. Thus, everything goes smooth at there.

However, I still need to pay all the levy fees, transportation, fomema, salary in advance….. for the replacement maid. All together 2k plus.

Upon our request, we are allowed to choose maid at maid training center in Cambodia by ourselves, this was a great news for hubby as he actually planned to insists the maid interview from the agent. Luckily, they actually provide such service to the customers. However, spending money in such a way really tears my heart, it's so painful!!!!!

Many had said it is not necessary to make such move. But the nightmare still very clear in and out of my mind, and this is the first and very last chance for us to get another replacement maid. If we reject the replaced maid then we got to pay all over again which means a loss of RM8k. Of course, there is still a risk to get a problem maid yet we just trying to minimize the risk we that we are taking. For hubby, he rather to spend a little bit more compare to the 8k – 9k plus, and he does not want to put ourselves in a very annoying situation.

That is why we will be going to Cambodia by end of this month in order to interview the maid.

And now, I had been very busy everyday, busy with those chores usually done by maid.

Well, as I mentioned before, many friends had asked me about my maid issue when I shouted out in my facebook.

Here is my narrative. (I had actually repeated thousand of times before this. =P)

As most you had knew, my old maid went back to her country after her contract end. She cannot continue due to her parents are not allow to do so. Hence, we had looked for another one from the same agent, Philimore. We were over confident to the agent about the maid quality and never expect the nightmare at all.

*Alright, I know I am too naïve!!!!*

Then, nightmare of mine began after the new one came. I identified her Fan Xu (sweet potato) and I identified my previous one Ah Fok (because she is too “Hang Fok” to become a maid). I had sent Ah Fok to my MIL house before Fan Xu come just to avoid them to bump together as, there was some bad habits of Ah Fok that I do not wish Fan Xu learn from her. We had communication problem when Fan Xu came, but we expected. Then we try to explain to her slowly: Not understand, ask (with some act), and we will teach her slowly.

Sooner, we found out that something wrong with her. She cannot concentrate when we are talking to her; she likes to do something/ anything when we are talking to her. She will just ignore the task that asked to do if she do not understand, but never ask when do not understand.

Never mind, chances given.

Then, may she is too young (she claimed herself 18, but we guess she is 14), she was not serious during her work. Wash dishes, not clean. Vacuum and mop floor, not clean, etc… She just does whatever we asked to do so but never though of do it properly.

Never mind, chances given. Again. We talked to her slowly and nicely, Please be serious and do things clean.

Come to another problem soon, at the same day. She cannot remember what she had been told or taught after few times. Well, we think positively that time. May be it is all caused by communication problem.

Never mind, chances given. Again!!! Then, we have no choice to asked Ah Fok to come back and train her. Thought that this could be solved her problems.

One day. Two days. Three days.

Problems still have not solved after Ah Fok trained her, after trainer from agent scold her.

Playful, not serious, forgetful, cannot pay attention, stubborn, fussy on the food. Problems never solved and even more comes!!!!

We have no choice but to send her back to agent, reject her after Ah Fok and we “certified” her abilities. Can you imagine?? She is peeling her feet skin and playing with Ah Fok’s short pants who sitting beside her when hubby and I were talking to her???!!!!!!

She is freaking annoying!!!!!

Then we asked Ah Fok to continue to work for us. However, due to visa issue and Ah Fok only willing to stay one more year, we finally have to let Ah Fok go and take back this Fan Xu, thought of giving her one more chance and more time for her to adjust herself to her new life style.

After Ah Fok went back, my life really in deep shit!!!! Life worst later on. I swear: my life had shortened 20 years after my maternity.

Her performance dropped day by day. She got scold by my mom and me everyday because she made mistake everyday, she never learn from her mistake, she still very forgetful, she still very dirty…….

Funniest part: My one of daily routine was check her chores after she has done. Because, she used to do this:
pot cover never covered after poured water,
slow cooker cover never covered after porridge took out,
never wash hand after thrown rubbish then touched my baby stuffs,
never wash hand after cleaned anchovy then kept our clean clothes,
never wash hand after “korek” her nose then folded our clean clothes,
never flash the water after thrown baby shit,
do not know how to make milk after been taught 5 times……. It’s 5 times!!!!!!
not to mention the mistakes when she taking care by daughters….. That were the worst mistakes she did… indescribable!!!!
I swear I caught her so many times for the above SAME mistakes.

I went madly and keep talking with hubby bout her problem over the phone every time. Finally, we decided to reject her when I come back to KL. But at the same time, she started to refuse to work and pretended sick for 3 days long. She wanted to go back, said by her. Oh well, no need to think twice, send her back straight away. After she claimed that she do not want to work for me, she dare to sit inside the room for that 3 whole days, walked out to asking for food when she is hungry then back into the room. She only do work upon our instruction (by force), once completed, back into the room again….. That is her daily routine for last 3 days in my house.

Ends up, I rushed back to KL on Sunday, sent her back on Monday, then looked a Taska for Little Rachel on Tuesday and finally rushed back to Kuantan on Wednesday.

After that, came back to KL on the following Sunday. I suppose to start work on Monday, but on leave again for sending Lilttle Rachel to Taska for her first day school……….

- To be continue -

Little Rachel 2 Years Old Mini Birthday Party

** This is one of the back dated post in my list. **

Yeah. Finally, little Rachel has turns into two. Initially, I planning to have a birthday celebration for her outside, somewhere have much fun for her. However, plan does not work out due to her birthday was crashing with my confinement. Hence, I only able to make a mini birthday party as her birthday celebration by inviting her grandparents and aunties as guests. Luckily, it turns out happily and little Rachel seems to be so enjoyed her wonderful moment, although there is no nice decoration, no nice food, no nice dress up, but only with a birthday cake and some presents.

Pandan Layer cake with Barney decoration from Cake Sense bought by Daddy.

Little Rachel was so exited when she saw this cake.

WAH~~~~~~ , that's her reaction!!!

Daddy is putting the candles for little one.

She can't listen to us even we keep calling her. Barney cake had attrated all her attention.

She was trying to do "V" upon my request, but failed.

That is our first family photo with Baby Renee.

Popo with little Rachel.

Everyone in the photo!!!!

Grandmas ** Granddaughters ** Great Grandma

Daddy purpose reserved the Barney head for little one.

Presents for little one!!!!

Before I deliver my second baby, I never though bout how others will comment my babies. Actually, I do not mind how people comment about my babies. As for me, they are the best. However, I seriously do not like to hear any comments that make comparison in between my daughters because I do not want them to feel hurt or feel bad to each other or may be they make comparison between two of them in one day like

Who is prettier. Who is smarter. Who is better…….

I don't mind you make comments like this girl how, that girl how but not this girl what then that girl what.... this girl is more pretty because she looks like who, that girl is not that pretty than the other one because she looks like who. Well, they pretty or not also non of your biz!!! BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT YOUR DAUGHTER, THEY ARE MINE. Why? You want to give money to the pretty one? As long as your daughter pretty then should be very much more than enough to stop you to comment mine. Please compare your own daughters but not mine.

Both also came out from the same factory. Both of them also the most pretty in my heart. Both of them also the same smart. Both of them also the best. Both also no 1, and there is no no2 forever.

I understand that you have your right to set your thinking but please do not speak it out to me or my family, as I honestly do not appreciate at all. FYI, no one has the right to make such comment, even we as a parent. They are human, and they are not a thing or animal. Please take care of their feelings. So, I will take this as disrespect to my hubby, my both daughters and me if you make such comment either you are my elders or whoever. Hence,

PLEASE STOP SAYING SUCH BRAINLESS COMMENT FROM NOW ON!!!!!

Or else I will fight back. For my beloved family!!!!!

Thank you.